CONTACTS WITH AMERINDIAN POPULATIONS
Even with American Indians used to contacts with tourists, there are rules of good behaviour to be followed
First of all, according to my thinking, nothing is worse than condescendence ("oh, the poor things!").
Some people have the tendency to confuse happiness with material riches.
If Indians usually possess hardly anything, nothing allows us to state that they are not happy. Life is good in the forest, food is abundant, freedom is extraordinary, and stress is unknown. Indians are indeed materially poor, but they are certainly less miserable than the people who live in shantytowns or other "favellas" of the large sprawling cities.
If they offer you to share their meal (a rare thing) don't expect an unforgettable gastronomical experience. Indians only like nearly burnt meat and will not hesitate to boil together a fish and some game. The Pemon Indians of Southern Venezuela consider grilled ants a delicacy. These ants are the large winged stud Atta species, the leaf-cutting ant. As a matter of fact, it is not bad, leaving a peanut aftertaste.
Giving presents is another delicate subject. I have seen people arriving with bags full of old clothes and distributing them to Indians.
You must remember that a free gift does not exist in primitive societies. It always must be accompanied by a gift in return, there has to be a counterpart or else there is no equilibrium in the transaction. Don't think that Indians will be grateful or have some regard towards you if you act that way: they often consider that your gift is what you owe them as a consequence of some virtual obligation you might have towards them.
Once I wanted to please a dug-out canoe driver who had worked well and I offered him my forehead lamp. He was furious.
He wanted the lamp AND the fishing equipment!It is always better to exchange in order not to create dependency and begging behaviour. There are always interesting things to exchange in villages: crafts, bows, blow-pipes, etc. But always choose things they like, not remains Indians in general love things like knives, lamps and everything pertaining to fishing and hunting. The great majority of Amerindians use money to buy fuel, cartridges, etc
A good way to help them is to buy their crafts if they sell some. You can of course bring candy for the children but choose some without paper wrapping or else you will find all the wrappings scattered throughout the village!